Anger Management and Mature Responses in the Book of Mormon

This painting depicts an epic struggle between the Nephite and Lamanite nations in the Book of Mormon. It sets the scene in a colorful way, showing me and you the desperate situation of our principle characters: Moroni (a Nephite captain) and Pahoran (a Nephite judge).

The first letter we read is from Moroni to Pahoran. Here is only some of the language he uses:

• "Great has been your neglect toward us" (Alma 60:5; emphasis added)
• "We know not that ye are also traitors to your country" (Alma 60:18; emphasis added). 
• "Will ye sit in idleness?" (Alma 60:22; emphasis added)
• "The sword of justice doth hang over you" (Alma 60:29; emphasis added). 

Can you imagine getting a letter like this? Those are some heavy insults, especially when Pahoran is actually innocent of any wrongdoing. However, Pahoran does not respond in anger; instead, he says,

"And now, in your epistle you have censured me, but it mattereth not; I am not angry, but do rejoice in the greatness of your heart" (Alma 61:9).

In his response, Pahoran reveals a maturity that I aspire to have. I understand Moroni's righteous anger, and I love Pahoran's gentle response. I am not a leader of an army, and people do not depend on me for their lives, but I will always have a sphere of influence. You have one too. Be gentle.

I want to be gentle. I want to respond with love, and always seek to see another's view. I don't want the painting above to be a depiction of my life, but I want to spread peace. It's a good goal :)